When Cameron and David* found out their daughter had died from cot death, they were angry and frustrated.
Until this happened, they didn’t know she existed.
The same-sex couple always wanted children, but the difficulties accessing surrogacy in New Zealand led them to go off-the-books, to try a more DIY approach
The pair made an arrangement to create, and co-parent the child with a lesbian couple. But after three attempts, they gave up. The women moved to Australia.